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Body: During a Pastor’s meeting, an old pastor stood up to testify to his faith. Yet his testimony surprised most of them. The pastor stood up and looked at the group and said, “I am a lay pastor of a small, not-growing church. I am not ordained. I am not seminary trained. I was asked to leave both Bible colleges I attended. I am divorced and remarried. On any given day I am capable of being a jerk with my wife and family. I am terminally insecure, which causes me to compensate with bouts of arrogance. At times people irritate me, and I hide from them. I am impulsive, which causes me to say things I shouldn’t and make promises I cannot keep. I am inconsistent. My walk with Christ is a stuttering, stumbling, bumbling attempt to follow Him. At times His presence is so real I can’t stop the tears, and then, without warning, I can’t find Him. Some days my faith is strong, impenetrable, and immovable—and some days my faith is weak, pathetic, helpless, knocked about like a paper cup floating on the ocean in the middle of a hurricane. I have been a Christian for 45 years. I am familiar with the vocabulary of faith, and I am often asked to give advice about matters of faith. But I am still a mess. I am light years away from being able to say with Paul, “Copy me.” I am 56 years old and still struggling, a flawed, clumsy, unstable follower of Jesus. A bona fide failure.” Have you ever felt like you let somebody down? Your spouse, your boss, a good friend; it’s not the best feeling in the world. Especially when you have said to them how they could, beyond a shadow of a doubt, depend on you. You could be trusted; you wouldn’t let them down. But you did. Now to disappoint someone who loves you hurts, but to disappoint the One who laid down His life for you, that’s painful. Peter’s life was one of ups and downs. After boasting that he would never leave Jesus, Peter watched from a distance as Jesus is led away. Peter followed at a distance, close enough to see Jesus, but not too close to be seen with Jesus. And as Jesus was being tried in the court of the High Priest, Peter stood outside and chose to warm himself by the fire, and three times he was recognized, three chances he had to make a bold stand for his Lord, and three times he blew it. And when the rooster crowed, scripture says, that Peter wept bitterly. A bona fide failure. But three days later, the news came, that the tomb was empty. Peter is elated, and Jesus appears to Peter and the others. But what must have been going through Peter’s mind. He was glad that Jesus was alive, but how would their relationship be? Did Peter go too far away to return? Perhaps we can put ourselves in Peter’s place this morning. We have sinned and went away from God and now we wonder, can God still love me after all that I’ve done. Is there still a place and purpose for me in His kingdom? This morning, I want us to look at the event where Jesus appears to the disciples for the third time and confronts Peter. The account is found in **John 21**, you can follow along in your bibles. **John 21:1** starts off, “Afterward Jesus appeared again to his disciples, by the Sea of Tiberias. It happened this way: Simon Peter, Thomas (called Didymus), Nathanael from Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two other disciples were together. I’m going out to fish," Simon Peter told them, and they said, "We’ll go with you." So, Peter has gone back to his old stomping grounds and doing what he knew best…fishing. And Peter fished like many of us do because it says in vs. 3 “So they went out and got into the boat, but that night they caught nothing. Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus.” Then it says in vs. 5 that, He called out to them, "Friends, haven’t you any fish?" "No," they answered. He said, "Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some." When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish. Now notice the similarities between Peter’s first calling to follow Jesus and this account. Both occurred on the Sea of Galilee, both times Peter couldn’t catch a thing, both times Jesus told him to throw his nets into the water and both times there is a miraculous catch. Sometimes when we have fallen, it’s good to go back to where it all began. For instance, when a couple is having difficulty in their marriage they often return to where they spent their honeymoon to remind them of what they had and to act as a starting point once more. Here Jesus is going to offer Peter another starting point, a second chance to make things right. So, after a meal together, Jesus turns to Peter. And in full view of all the other disciples, Jesus confronts Peter. Peter was full of doubts concerning where he now stood with his Master. I suspect he feared the day when Christ might say something like, "Peter, why did you deny Me?" Yet our Lord had too much compassion to push the knife of guilt any deeper into Peter’s heart. Rather, His goal was to remove Peter’s guilt, to perform deep soul-surgery and effectively cut out the ache from Peter’s heart. In vs. 15 we read, “When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, "Simon son of John, do you truly love me more than these?” Notice the name change here. Jesus doesn’t refer to Peter as Peter “the Rock”, simply as Simon. The title of Peter no longer fit. A rock is strong and above all dependable, and Peter had been anything but dependable. "Simon son of John, do you truly love me more than these?” More than what? More than the fish? No, this is a reference to Peter’s boast in the upper room where he stated that even if everybody else fled, he never would. Peter had been boastful, and Jesus was asking, “Simon, are you still willing to make that claim?” And Peter wasn’t. He responds by saying, “"Yes, Lord," he said, "you know that I love you." No comparisons, no boasting on how his level of commitment was superior to anybody else’s. Peter, through his mistake, had learned humility and he realized that maybe he wasn’t as strong as he thought he was. Often, we underestimate just how strong our faith is. We have all thought a time or two that if I went through a tragedy, I couldn’t handle it…yet when the time comes you realize that your faith was stronger than you had thought. But at the same time, we often overestimate our strength, and our need for others and for the strength of God’s Spirit is not necessary. Peter was sure that he would never do what he did again. And many of us make the claim that we would never find ourselves in the sins that others commit. But we never know. That is why we should always be vigilant, always on guard. David never thought he would commit adultery, Solomon never thought he would get caught up in idolatry, and Peter never thought that he would deny even knowing Jesus Christ. That’s why **1 Corinthians 10:12** says, "If you think you are strong, you should be careful not to fall." Peter was overconfident. But Peter learned that he wasn’t as strong as he thought, and because of his mistake, Peter was humbled and became honest about his spiritual condition. And this is most evident in the word exchange between Peter and Jesus. Now as you know, the Greek language is a more exact language than the English language. That’s why often times it’s hard to translate certain passages in the Bible. And a good example is right here. In the Greek, there are three words for our word love. The first is Eros which is a physical love and is where we get our word erotic from. We can compare it to lust. The second kind of love is known as Phileo; which means brotherly love. Philadelphia is known as the city of brotherly love. We can compare it to the word “like”. The final kind of love is known as Agape love, and this is the unconditional, self-sacrificing love. It means the complete devotion to someone. Here in the text, Jesus says, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love Me.” And the word He uses for love there is the word, Agape. Well, Peter responded in an honest fashion. He knew that his actions didn’t match that kind of devotion, and that he wasn’t quite there; so, Peter responds by saying, “Lord, you know that I love you.” But the word he uses for love there is Phileo. So, to paraphrase this text, “Peter, do you love Me 100%, more than anything else?” “Lord, you know I like you.” Peter was simply being honest here. He wasn’t quite at that level of love yet. He was honest, and tells the truth, how often are we honest about our spiritual condition. Honesty. We respect it and we admire it. The absence of honesty is detrimental to a relationship. If a person fails to acknowledge that everything is not okay, then trouble is brewing. Sometimes one person may be ignorant that a problem exists within the relationship. An aged farmer and his wife were leaning against the edge of their pigpen when the old woman wistfully recalled that the next week would mark their golden wedding anniversary. “Let’s have a party, Homer," she suggested. "Let’s kill a pig." The farmer scratched his grizzled head. "Gee, Ethel," he finally answered, "I don’t see why the pig should take the blame for something that happened fifty years ago." Honesty about the strength and health of the relationship is important, but how often are we truly honest about our condition. Ask a person how they are doing and rarely will you get an honest response. A woman sits at home while her husband is busy at work. She is surrounded by three screaming children in a house that even after a full day of cleaning is still in shambles. Her husband rarely is home and when he is he rarely speaks. He has his career, and she has her home, and though she would never complain about the wonderful family God has blessed them with, she secretly fills unfilled, unmotivated, and unappreciated. When her husband arrives home and says, “Honey, how are you doing?” Her response is… “Fine, just fine.” A Christian arrives to church on Sunday morning just as the church bell rings to welcome the faithful. And even as he enters the church, he feels that God is a million miles away. He no longer has the urge to pray, and he no longer hungers for God’s word. He has for weeks now known that the cancer is eating away at his body and inside he feels as though God has betrayed him. He is mad and at times a stray thought or two has crossed his mind that maybe, just maybe there is no God. Yet on Sunday morning, when the pastor asks the question, “How is it with your soul this morning?” the man replies, “…Fine…just fine.” Let me ask you, how is it with your soul this morning? Is it “fine”? Don’t pretend your relationship with Christ is fine when it’s not. And let me tell you, it’s okay to admit that. If you go to an AA meeting, the first step they will tell you is necessary in recovery is to first admit the problem; to be honest about it. And here within this meeting, this is the place to say that. The church is not a pretty place of fine people; it’s sometimes a place of dirty, hurting people in need of grace and assistance. And we come together to help each other grow in the faith and grow closer to God, but we need to admit that we need that help. “Do you Agape Me?” No, I’m not there yet, but I want to be. I want to be there, but I have a lack of desire, I still feel attached to doing wrong, and I need help.” And when we do that, God says, “Good, now we can work on fixing it.” 3 times Peter had failed, and 3 times He is restored; and done so in full view of all the others. Now they all knew that the Rock was back. Peter had been restored. Now real quick let me give you points I want you to leave with this morning. First, no matter how messy your past may be, Jesus stands not only ready to forgive, but also to restore. He can restore you and use you for His glory. Some of the best preachers have been at one time some of the worst sinners, but God washed them and restored them. Even if you are a bona fide failure, Jesus stands ready to restore you and use you for great things for His kingdom. Second, if we are going to be restored then we must be honest about our spiritual condition. Some of us here today are not “fine” in our faith. We may lack commitment to Jesus and to His Church. So, the first thing we need to do is to admit that. Admit that your relationship with Christ is not what it should be and then allow Christ and His church to bring you up to the point where you need to be. Third, recognize that when you are honest with God, be prepared for God to be honest with you. God is not a fool. And if you come to God saying, “I just don’t feel close to You,” be prepared to hear, “Well, I haven’t heard from you in a while. I’ve been here, where have you been?” God will strike directly at the root of the problem and that is not always an easy thing for us to take. So, let me ask you this morning, how is it with your soul? Honestly. How are you doing? We are going to close this morning with a quiet time, and I want you to look within yourself honestly this morning. If you are not fine, whether it be spiritually, physically, or even emotionally, I want to invite you to come forward to this altar to pray. I want to pray with you for your situation.
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